Alternatives to Therapy
- Marley Cote
- May 1, 2024
- 7 min read
Here is a list of alternatives or supplements to therapy. The resources on this list are not listed in any particular order. Though there are many things listed here, there are many more that you may come up with on your own or within your community!
As you recover from trauma, it is important to be creative, flexible, and curious.
Organizations
Unsilenced
“Our mission is to stop institutional child abuse by empowering self-advocates to promote lasting social change.”
PTSD Coach Online
Wildflower alliance
“The Wildflower Alliance supports healing and empowerment for our broader communities and people who have been impacted by psychiatric diagnosis, trauma, extreme states, homelessness, problems with substances and other life-interrupting challenges.”
Hearing Voices Network
“Founded in 2010, the Hearing Voices Network USA represents a partnership between individuals who hear voices or have other extreme or unusual experiences, professionals and allies in the community, all of whom are working together to change the assumptions made about these phenomenon and create supports, learning and healing opportunities for people across the country.”
The Yarrow Collective
“We envision a community where coercive care is no longer necessary because individuals experiencing mental distress have a broad array of effective, accessible, and safe pathways towards their own unique definition of mental wellness.”
Peer Support groups (in-person Fort Collins, CO and some virtual)
FolkTime
“By promoting a recovery-oriented support system that focuses on hope, choice, and connection, FolkTime provides training, support, and advocacy for the most vulnerable in our communities. FolkTime is a leading organization dedicated to promoting mental health and wellness through peer support services. With a rich history spanning over 4 decades, FolkTime has established itself as a trusted and respected provider of peer support services in addition to training and technical assistance in the field of peer support. Their mission is to create inclusive communities where individuals facing mental health challenges can find understanding, connection, and support from their peers.”
Peer Connection Centers (Oregon City and Portland, OR)
Resources
Peer support
Peer Respite
“A peer respite is a voluntary, short-term, overnight program that provides community-based, non-clinical crisis support to help people find new understanding and ways to move forward. It operates 24 hours per day in a homelike environment.Peer respites are staffed and operated by people with psychiatric histories or who have experienced trauma and/or extreme states.”
App: WhiteFlag
“WhiteFlag is a mental health movement designed to help people in need of support find immediate connection with people who have been there too. The beating heart of WhiteFlag is our app, a peer-to-peer messaging experience that instantly connects people seeking help with the support they need. Users are matched based on shared experiences and challenges.”
Meditation
Creating a sense of groundedness or feeling present within the body
A place in nature, a place you’ve been before, a place you’ve never been
Recommended to avoid places you used to hide as a child or dissociate
Connecting with safe others internally
Animal, sacred being, or thing of nature
Recommended to avoid pets as they can be a source of comfort and grief
Body check-ins/scans
Noticing distress in the body and practicing conscious, deep breaths
Noticing what relaxation or comfort feels like inside the body
Noticing what distress feels like and looks like inside the body
Being with parts of self
Being with the parts of you who needed a safe, secure adult
Reminding the parts of you that you will protect them
Reminding parts and self that you are an adult now with choices/options
Showing love, acceptance, and compassion to the parts of you most misunderstood or unseen
“Unblending” from parts who hold intense memories/emotions by becoming more grounded/present with the current moment
Reconnecting with forgotten parts of self
The parts who hold traumatic memories and emotions
The parts who hold creativity, fabulousness, humor, play, curiosity
“Self-Havening is a wonderful stress management and resiliency building self-healing tool. It's easy to learn and apply. You'll notice the effects within minutes as this combination of cognitive behavioral therapy and psychosensory approaches work immediately to reduce anxiety and create calm.”
A free app that offers guided meditations, motivational talks, yoga classes, sound baths and more
A free app that can help by guiding you in the use of the Community Resiliency Model, a set of wellness skills. You will learn simple information about how stress affects the mind and body.
“This online MBSR training course is 100% free, created by a fully certified MBSR instructor, and is based on the program founded by Jon Kabat-Zinn at the University of Massachusetts Medical School.
Safety plan
A safety plan is a tool for helping someone navigate suicidal feelings and urges.
Safety Plan Workbook (from Call Bubbie)
Exercise
Martial arts
Kickboxing
Muay Thai
Jiu-jitsu
Taekwondo
Tai Chi
Aikido
Judo
Jeet Kune Do
Capoeira
Hapkido
Yoga
Vinyasa yoga
Hatha yoga
Iyengar yoga
Kundalini yoga
Ashtanga yoga
Yin yoga
Restorative yoga
Jivamukti yoga
Dance
Tap dance
Folk dance
Hip-hop dance
Argentine tango dance
Jazz dance
Capoeira
Lambada
Salsa dance
Swing dance
Running
Weight lifting
CranioSacral Therapy
“A gentle, hands-on method of evaluating and enhancing the functioning of a physiological body system called the craniosacral system - comprising the membranes and cerebrospinal fluid that surround and protect the brain and spinal cord.”
Acupuncture
“A technique in which practitioners insert fine needles into the skin to treat health problems. The needles may be manipulated manually or stimulated with small electrical currents (electroacupuncture)”
Body modification
Piercing
Tattooing
Experimenting with clothing, hair, makeup, overall appearance
Allowing self to play with what feels true to your whole identity
Allowing parts of self to reclaim expression, identity, and appearance
Gardening
From having a plant to an actual garden, depending on what is available and realistic
Practicing caretaking and mindfulness with the plant(s)
Noticing their growth and development
Noticing what it’s like to speak to and touch the plant(s)
Animals
Oftentimes, animals can create a sense of safety when it comes to attachment
If you have a pet, be mindful and intentional when spending time together, playing together, and cuddling together.
Noticing the companion’s breathing, heart rate with yours
Noticing the feel of their fur/skin on your finger tips
Noticing the smell of them
Noticing if they attune to your distress and excitement
Noticing if you attune to their distress and excitement
Practicing and receiving caregiving behaviors
Volunteering at a local animal shelter to spend bonding time and caretaking time with animals.
Farm sanctuaries often rescue animals from slaughterhouses, dairy farms, and other exploitative industries. The cows, chickens, sheep, pigs, and horses at farm sanctuaries can often offer healing and understanding.
Nature
Hikes
App: AllTrails
Free hiking guide based on location
Walking
Visiting parks or botanical gardens
Journaling
Writing letters to perpetrators, failed rescuers, parts of self, or to your younger self
Writing letters to your emotions, memories, body sensations
Writing letters to your defenses and survival strategies (e.g. self-harm, substance use, eating disorders, people pleasing, perfectionism, dissociation, inner critic)
Allowing parts of self and emotions to write to you about what is wrong and what is needed
Completing or attempting 30-day journal activities
Art
Drawing
Painting
Poetry
Creative writing
Similar to journaling, you can use art to process through emotions with the same prompts. For additional work, practice bilateral stimulation by beginning the art with your dominant hand, then switching halfway through the activity to your non-dominant hand until it feels completed/processed.
Music
Listening to music
Listening to and reclaiming music that may have been banned or forbidden
Listening to music that is mood-congruent
Moving your body as you feel the music/vibration of sound
Creating and/or producing music
Activism
(Re)connecting with survivors and creating groups
Speaking out about your experience
Speaking out to safe, trusted loved ones
Speaking out to safe family members
Speaking out publicly (if safe, if what the individual wants)
Writing about and sharing your experience
Joining efforts to create or support legislation to end the TTI
Connecting with lawyers to pursue lawsuits, obtaining records, challenging statute of limitations
Calling, writing letters, emailing your local representatives about the TTI and its impact on you and fellow survivors
Educating and creating trainings for the community about the TTI and its impact
Volunteering
Volunteering with youth
Organizations that offer compassionate care to suicidal and/or homicidal youth
Volunteering with organizations fighting the TTI and/or creating legislation targeting the TTI/other forms of institutional child abuse
Offering support to fellow survivors
Recommended books
I See You, Survivor: Life Inside (and Outside) the Totally F*cked-Up Troubled Teen Industry (Liz Ianelli)
Troubled: The Failed Promise of America’s Behavioral Treatment Programs (Kenneth Rosen)
Help at Any Cost: How the Troubled-Teen Industry Cons Parents and Hurts Kids (Maia Szalavitz)
Dead, Insane, or in Jail (Zack Bonnie)
The Sober Truth (Lance Dodes, Zachary Dodes)
Complex PTSD: Surviving to Thriving (Pete Walker)
Tapping In: A Step-by-Step Guide to Activating Your Healing Resources Through Bilateral Stimulation (Laurel Parnell)
The Biology of Desire (Marc Lewis)
No Bad Parts (Richard Schwartz)
In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts (Gabor Maté)
When the Body Says No (Gabor Maté)
How Emotions Are Made (Lisa Feldman Barrett)
Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents (Lindsay Gibson)
Will I Ever Be Good Enough? Healing the Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers (Karyl McBride)
Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men (Lundy Bancroft; about domestic violence, but it explains the mindset and beliefs of abusive people very well)
Be a Teammate With Yourself (Colin Ross)
Trauma & Recovery (Judith Herman)
Unlocking the Emotional Brain (Bruce Ecker)
Ease Your Anxiety (Joan Rosenberg)
Man’s Search for Meaning (Viktor Frankl)
Self-Compassion (Kristin Neff)
The Body Remembers (Babette Rothschild)
Care Work: Dreaming Disability Justice (Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha)
The Body Keeps the Score (Bessel van der Kolk)*
*This book can be very activating for survivors due to its content
(e.g. dehumanizing humans in psychiatric facilities, mentions of imperialism and
the Vietnam War) as well as allegations against the author for sexual
harassment.
While this book can be helpful to some survivors, it is important people are aware of these very serious concerns and issues within the book and with the author
If looking for an alternative, please look into Complex PTSD (Pete Walker) or The Body Remembers (Babbette Rothschild)



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